What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
29- How superstitious are you?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
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What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
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3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
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20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
What are some life hacks for living on your own?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
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52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
The Ice Breaker Questions
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
What do you typically do while on meth?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
If yes, what?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
How far does good behavior take you in a prison?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Who are the archers in Genesis 49:23?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
62~ Have you used adult toys?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
Would you read them together?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Please share Did you stop?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Nothing too Serious
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
52~ What are your hobbies?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
How old are you? Male or Female?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
39~ What are your love languages?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
If you win, what will you make them do?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Family Relation Age Play
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Any that are a turn off?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
*** Random Questions ***
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
*** Questions About Me ***
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?